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By AM Not AI This isn’t about football… but also, it kind of is. Hang in there—some great tips below. Did you catch the Bears/Packers game last night? Going into the third quarter it was Packers 21, Bears 3 and I’m thinking, “Welp. Wrap it up.” And then—because sports loves humiliating confident predictions—the Bears claw back and suddenly it’s 31–27 . Chaos. Momentum. A total reset. Now let’s talk dating. It’s 1/11/2026 . How many of you have already rage-scrolled, sighe