Ok, yes — I’ve had years  to think about this… 30 , to be precise, as a dating coach and matchmaker. So can you settle for 2 or 3 out of the 4 standards ? Nope. Because here’s the problem: no one really teaches us how to choose a life partner. Most of us are winging it based on what we saw growing up, what our friends do, or whatever rom-com nonsense we accidentally absorbed on Netflix. But there are  standards. And there is absolutely no reason to settle . So today’s a short