Why Smart People Fail at Dating (and how to fix it)

Let’s be honest for a second.

You’ve done a lot right:

Career ✅

Health ✅

Financial stability ✅

And yet…

Your dating life?

Inconsistent at best.

Here’s what I see after 30+ years and 33,000+ first dates:

Smart people treat dating like a side hobby

and expect it to deliver a life-changing result.

It doesn’t work that way.

My friend Arthur Brooks has been saying this. I've been saying this for at least 20 of 30+ years of experience....especially about longevity of life related to love.

Inspired by what experts like Peter Attia** are saying about longevity:

Connection isn’t optional—it’s essential

People in strong relationships:

Live longer

Stay sharper

Feel better

So why are you leaving this part of your life to chance?

Here’s the shift:

Dating is not a feeling.

It’s a decision.

The people who succeed:

Have a plan

Stay consistent

Get guidance

The people who don’t:

Dabble

Get frustrated

Quit

And one more thing…

There is no one way to meet someone.

But there is one big mistake: relying on only one.

Spring is one of the BEST times of year to meet someone.

Energy is up.

People are out.

Opportunities are everywhere.

But only if you’re actually in the game.

*SPECIAL OFFER

If you start by May 1, I’m opening a limited number of spots for a 30-day strategic dating program.

(I will run out of spaces probably by this weekend...so do it now.)

Focused.

Efficient.

Designed for results.

*Let’s talk.

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Book now at 33000Dates.com

Andrea McGinty

Founder, It’s Just Lunch

Founder, 33000Dates.com

Featured on Oprah, The Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, People Magazine & more

30 years experience

33,000+ dates curated

10,000+ marriages

65% success rate

Love is not Luck. It's Strategy. ™

30 years experience | curated 33,000 dates | over 10,000 marriages | 65% success rate

**I'm only quoting him as it makes sense and has nothing to do with charges against him.